Monday, November 9, 2015

The American Dream

My blog is not a place where I want to discuss politics or controversial issues.  Political writing is too hard, too stressful, and too alienating.  I want to be able to discuss learning Spanish, raising bilingual kids, Latin American culture, and a variety of other topics without venturing into controversy.  I going to try to follow that philosophy, while at the same time talking about a few things that have been on my mind lately, and that I’ve had some conversations about that I’d like to address.

My job in the public library affords me the opportunity to talk to people from very diverse backgrounds.  A few weeks ago, my boss met the manager of a local Mexican restaurant who was very interested in his employees benefiting from the services the library offers (ESL, GED, etc.) and he started sending a few of his employees down to see us.  My boss asked me to help these folks since I speak Spanish.  One of the employees comes down and we’ve been working together the past few weeks on ESL and computer lessons.  He’s a very recent arrival from Guatemala.

Yesterday we were having a conversation, and he has told me in the past that he has two children that are right around the same age as my kids.  So I ask “did your kids go out for Halloween this year?” to which he replied “no”.  I didn’t think anything of it, I knew he would have been at work at that time and that Halloween isn’t really a Guatemalan tradition.  So, the main thrust of our conversation went back to making an ESL study plan.  I asked him if his kids helped him at all with his English and he said “no, they don’t speak it”.  Unknowingly, I replied “they’ll learn fast, kids always learn faster than us”.  Then he said “They’re not here, they are in Guatemala”.  I was shocked, and I could see the pained look in his face.  I asked if they would come to join him someday, the answer was no.  I asked if he could go back and visit someday, and likewise the answer was negative.  I could not believe it, and my friend could just say “it’s hard, it’s hard”.  I know it would have to be.  I can’t imagine not being able to see my kids, they’re my life.  And his kids are his life too, that’s why he’s here, to work hard to send money back home.  I can’t even fathom the pain of making the decision to leave everybody behind, out of love for them.  Now our friend is washing dishes at a restaurant, working 12 hours a day, 6 days a week.  It’s so sad.  I sincerely hope our friend finds success here in the United States and can provide his children with a great education and upbringing with the money he is sending back.  That would be the American dream.  For too many, the American dream doesn’t become the reality that it could or should be.  

When I hear things like Ann Coulter talking about how immigrants are “importing peasant cultures” or Donald Trump saying that Mexico is sending us “rapists and murderers”, it makes me cringe inside.  For one thing, I’ve had the incredible privilege of being able to meet, work with, and get to know many immigrants from all over the world.  This has made my life so much richer.  I think it goes without saying that the Trumps and Coulters of the world are xenophobic hate mongers, but it does need repeating.  One voice that has countered the unrealistic hateful rhetoric of the aforementioned individuals is Anthony Bourdain, please see the link for more on his comments in support of immigrants.  There are immigrants who bring drugs and violence into our country (because our country has a huge demand for drugs), but they are absolutely the exception and not even close to the rule.  Most of our immigrant friends from Mexico and Central America are hard working people just trying to improve the chances of theirs and their children’s success.  All too often when they get here our country’s promise isn’t there for them.  

Immigrants, especially undocumented ones are a vulnerable population that are often abused, overworked, and taken advantage of.  My friend, as I mentioned earlier, works 12 hour days, 6 days a week.  This is not as bad as it gets.  Another friend told me that when he first came to the United States he worked in a candy factory, staffed exclusively by immigrants.  The managers were all Americans, and during their 12-14 hour days of putting candy by hand into boxes the foreman would scream “hurry up” and step on the gas pedal to speed up the conveyer belt.  The people would be working at their maximum speed for all of those hours.  This individual eventually found better work, but that’s not easy.  When you’re doing back-breaking work for many hours a day, a lot of times you can’t or are too tired to be looking for better opportunity.  Long hours for little pay are not the only disappointments that await many immigrants and it’s not only adults who end up being treated poorly and exploited.    

Child labor is something that happens in the United States, especially in agriculture.  Children over 12 are legally allowed to work in agriculture in our country, a policy that goes back to the days of small family farms.  Nowadays, kids often work in mega farms.  Working in agriculture often results in kids dropping out of school.  Agriculture, and cheap food prices, very often leads to exploitation and working in slave like conditions.  One of the biggest problems with our agricultural workers is that they’re invisible.  It’s unfortunate to think that the apple I’m eating right now may have been picked by a child laborer, or a person who is paid less than minimum wage and forced to live in a migrant camp, but that’s the reality of much of the agriculture produced in the United States.  Other than low wages, child labor, and poor living conditions, there are other things that go against migrant laborers.   

Very often a person’s status is used to coerce them, and undocumented people who are fearful of authority often don’t report crimes and threats against them to the police.  Frontline produced an enlightening (and award winning) documentary called Rape in the Fields that addresses this issue.  Many mega farms in the United States use workers’ immigration status to blackmail them to not go to the authorities after sexual assaults.  This same kind of coercion can happen to people without papers in other industries, and even outside of the job context.  Many illegal immigrants don’t report crimes against them because they fear what will happen if authorities get involved.  

Other than Native and African Americans, the majority of our ancestors were immigrants.  Immigrants contributed to making our country what it is today.  Throughout our history, there has always been xenophobic backlash against immigrants from all sorts of places.  From the Chinese Exclusion Act to discrimination against Irish, Italian, Jewish, and other immigrants, hate and fear have unfortunately been common responses.  It’s easy now to look back and see the contributions of these groups to our collective culture, identity, industry, and life.  Our current immigrants and their families can and most certainly will shape our future and our identity as well.  Let’s do our part to make sure that the American Dream is there for them, and that they have the support, friendship, and tools to make it here and build a better life.  

I am proud to work for an institution that focuses on educating the community at large, including immigrants.  We have programs available to help people learn English, make resumes and cover letters, do mock job interviews, and introduce their children to the early literacy skills that will help them succeed later in life.  Pittsburgh is very lucky to have many organizations that help recent arrivals adjust to and thrive in the United States.  We are home to Casa San Jose, Jewish Family and Children’s Services, the Greater Pittsburgh Literacy Council and many more.  When we rally around our neighbors and give them the support they need, we can ensure that the American Dream is available to them and that they don’t become victims of some of the people, businesses, and situations that would take advantage of them.  Plus you might just make some great new friends!        

I’m going to leave you with a quote from Pope Francis’s recent address to congress:  

“In recent centuries, millions of people came to this land to pursue their dream of building a future in freedom. We, the people of this continent, are not fearful of foreigners, because most of us were once foreigners. I say this to you as the son of immigrants, knowing that so many of you are also descended from immigrants. Tragically, the rights of those who were here long before us were not always respected. For those peoples and their nations, from the heart of American democracy, I wish to reaffirm my highest esteem and appreciation. Those first contacts were often turbulent and violent, but it is difficult to judge the past by the criteria of the present. Nonetheless, when the stranger in our midst appeals to us, we must not repeat the sins and the errors of the past. We must resolve now to live as nobly and as justly as possible, as we educate new generations not to turn their back on our “neighbors” and everything around us. Building a nation calls us to recognize that we must constantly relate to others, rejecting a mindset of hostility in order to adopt one of reciprocal subsidiarity, in a constant effort to do our best. I am confident that we can do this.”  

See the Popes full remarks here

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